On June 12, just one week exactly after his 90th birthday, our dearest Papa passed away after a rough 6-week period. Six weeks prior he fell at their house, which seemed to cause his dementia (which he had had for the last year or so) to progress. He was in the hospital for while following the fall recovering from dehydration. Then, he was moved to a rehabilitation facility and then to an assisted living memory care facility. The Sunday before he passed away, his blood pressure was extremely high which took him back to the hospital for a couple of days before then moving to a Hospice House, where he passed away on Wednesday night.
We will forever cherish our memories of what a sweet grandpa and great-grandpa he was to us. We enjoyed our visits with him and he truly enjoyed every moment he spent with his great-grandsons. Our last visit with him was the Wednesday two weeks before he passed away. While visiting him that day, we asked Jack and Mark to salute Papa and they did. While his dementia had progressed significantly after his recent fall, he still knew to salute them back! It was really neat to see!
We will miss Papa so much! It just won't be the same without being able to call him or visit him in Gastonia, but we know he is so much better off!
We love you Papa more than words can say!
Here is a tribute that Heather, Doug, Rachel and Roger wrote and Eileen read at Papa's funeral:
First we would like to thank everyone for being here today to pay his or her respects to our Dad and Paw Paw,Allen Dills. He is pleased to see so many of his friends and family here today. Whether you knew him as a husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, uncle, or friend, you probably had the same level of appreciation for him that we did.
Our Dad and Paw Paw was a great man. When we think about him the words that come to mind are: hard worker, caring, patient, loving, Christian, humorous, faithful, respectful, storyteller, craftsman and family man. These are just a few words that come to mind, but it is impossible to summarize how great a person he was in words.
We would like to share just a few of our memories with you.
We will always remember some of his great quotes:
“Time waits for no man.”
“Having the right tool is half the job.”
“There is not but one of you and you are both of them.” (we never did understand this saying, but we always thought it was his way of saying “you’re special”)
“Awe, don’t leave. You can go home when you can’t go nowhere else.”
“Always look out for the other man.” (which has two meanings, a safety tip when driving and brotherly love)
“The shortest pencil is better than the longest memory”
“I love the ground you walk on”
“I already miss you” (said as you were walking out the door to leave their house)
We all share so many memories of times spent with our Dad and Paw Paw. Some of our fondest memories are from Sunday lunches and spending the Sunday afternoons and holidays at their house.
Dad was always so helpful, always willing to lend a helping hand. He was very handy helping out in so many ways around the house through the years. While he only had limited educational opportunities, he was one of the smartest men we knew. He could figure out how to do just about anything.
He was famous for the way he read the daily newspaper. He would read it in its entirety twice each day. He always said he got things out of it the second time that he missed the first. He was an avid reader. He loved a good book, which was always a good gift for him for any occasion.
He was also famous for his garden and gardening skills. He absolutely loved plowing, seeding and then reaping his harvest to share with his family and friends. He loved every aspect of nature. He loved to talk about trees and birds. He would look out their back porch and count the squirrels he could see in the backyard at any given time. He could appreciate the beauty of the simplest things in nature.
After he retired from working so many years, he was known to time himself doing household chores and was quite proud of how few seconds it took him to make a bed or iron a shirt. And most recently, he began timing Mom on how long it took her to mow the grass on their John Deere riding lawn mower. He told us her best time was 56 minutes.
He was very proud of his country and his service during World War II. You couldn’t be around him long without him sharing his war stories with you. As most of you know, he served in the Battle of the Bulge and would always talk about even with the dangers of being in war, it sure was cold that winter in Europe.
We sure are going to miss our Dad and Paw Paw’s jokes, his wisdom and his love. One day in the future we will meet again in heaven. Until then we will strive to continue to pass down his wisdom, uphold his values and stay close as a family, just as we know he would want us to do.
Dad and Paw Paw, we want to thank you for being such a wonderful person. We thank you so much for all that you have done for us, for your family, your friends and your country. We will all miss you and love you always.
Here are some pictures of Papa and his great-grandsons throughout the past 4 years...
July 2009
November 2009
February 2010
June 2010
July 2010
October 2010
May 2011
September 2011
December 2011
July 2012
December 2012